BreakThrough With   Brenda
  Course Outline
  Seminar   Course Outline by Brenda Miller, CBr1
  
    
      | In   this class you will find: | Discovery   and delight. | 
    
      |  | Universal   truths. | 
    
      |  | Laughter   and fun. | 
    
      |  | Heart   wrenching moments. | 
    
      |  | Peace   and joy. | 
  
  Friday   7pm to 9pm – Free Public Lecture/Part 1 Of Class  
  
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                What   Do You Find When You BreakThrough? 
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                Conflict   & Unity…and Other Opposites 
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                Who   Really Makes Us “Feel”? 
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                Beliefs   – The CEO Within Us 
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                Conditioning   – How It Molds Us 
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                The   Many Faces We Hide Our ‘Natural Self’ Behind 
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                BreakThrough   As A Regressive Practice 
Saturday   9:00 am to 5:00 pm
  Lunch   and two coffee/tea breaks.
  
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                The   Philosophy Of BreakThrough 1  
 
 
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                Emotions   & Behavior – The Truth 
 
 
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                The   7 Primary Concepts: 
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          1.    Responsive   living:  when we respond to a situation,   it leads to more        peaceful living, less exploding and less   imploding. 
 
 
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          2.    Reactive   living and coping mechanisms:  the more   obsessive and rigid        our beliefs, the stronger our defenses become and the more   reactive our        responses will be.  The end   result is that our beliefs undermine our        happiness because a life lived   defensively contains little true joy.  
 
 
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          3.    Defining   our catalysts:  catalysts are the   external situations that push our        buttons.    The buttons are the deep-seated beliefs we hold about life and        self that   drive our behavior and over-reactions. 
 
 
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          4.    Belief   systems are our ideals, opinions, attitudes, and mores – the shoulds        and shouldn’ts of   life.   
 
 
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          5.    Personal   identification with emotions and actions:    when we are labeled        enough, ‘You are bad, stupid, worthless,’ etc. we   mistakenly believe that is        who we are.       
 
 
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          6.    Blame   consciousness:  is the simplest way of   avoiding and not gaining        perspective.  To   blame another is to avoid self-honesty and rigidify the        belief that others are   the cause of our experience of life.  To   give up        blaming others is also to give up blaming   self. 
 
 
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          7.    Victim   consciousness:  is a disempowering belief   that says ‘external         events and people control my emotions’.  Victim consciousness is the         simplest means of   avoiding responsibility for our own life   experience. 
 
 
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      ·          The   7 Steps (Theory & Demonstration): 
      
        
          - 1.    Admitting   to an over-reaction (reacting to a situation) and fining the        catalyst.  Making a ‘feeling’ or ‘appearing’   statement.
- 2.    Finding   the predominant emotion associated with the   situation.
- 3.    Describing   the emotion honestly (behavior).
- 4.    Discovering   the external belief systems involved.    Getting the ‘aha’.
- 5.    Revealing   the internal belief systems.
- 6.    Using   logic to demonstrate that the belief system is faulty.  Recognizing         the surface and ulterior motives   for the over-reaction.
- 7.    The   new awareness gained as a result of the 7 steps.  Fully forgiving self.  
 
    
  
Sunday   9:00 am to 5:00 pm
  Lunch   and two coffee/tea breaks.
  - Review   steps 
Group   BreakThrough (3 or 4 to a group) to   practice.
       BreakThrough   in pairs (one facilitates/exchange).
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      Certificates  (Receiving   a certificate in this workshop   will enable you to do BreakThroughs on others, or on   clients depending on your country’s laws).  
See   you there.